The Bad Girls' Guide This is a journal based on love & relationships. It's mainly the stuff we talk about but that noone ever wrote down. It's all the stuff in all those self help books that we read, all the stuff that should be said but aren't. This is just a venting spiel, about the idiosyncrasies of dating/love & relationships and how to make it better Statistics Unique Visitors: Total Unique Visitors: Outgoing: Total Outgoing: 4 0 2 5988

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When He Doesn't Make a Move, part 2 2007-11-19 02:51:00 Question: First (and maybe last) date last night...GREAT conversation, GREAT dancing at a fun club, asked me back for a final drink and said I could stay over to sleep and drive the 30 minute drive home the next morning (I'm thinking ...yeah right...I wasn't born yesterday) and since he had hardly even touched me the whole night (except for rubbing my hair after dancing...which was sweaty and ...

When He's on the Down Low 2007-11-17 05:31:00 Question: I've been seeing this guy for almost a year now and this morning I woke up early and was being a snoop and checked his email( he gave me his password in the past to check some stuff for him) I know it wasn't right but something just told me to check his email what I found was something I never in a million years would think I'd find! His outbox showed messages to someone named Wanda... ...

TMI Tuesday 2007-11-13 22:22:00 1. Have you ever met a fellow blogger in person? Yes! I've met Teri!!! Of course, I know I can't count the people that I knew in real life and cajoled them into blogging like my sisters, best friend and college buddy. 2. Did you ever play an innocent game of "I'll show you mine if you show me yours"? It was more like I wanna see yours and no you can't see mine! ;P How old where you? Prolly ...

Is Baby Mama Drama Worth It? 2007-11-11 06:09:00 I got a question today from a young lady contemplating delving further into a committed relationship with a man that has the baby mama from hell. I know Mistress and a few other Bad Girls are on the side of the fence that no man is worth baby mama drama, turmoil and emotional roller coaster that dealing with a kid from his ex gives...but let me stand on the other side of the fence for a moment. ...

When He's a Virgin 2007-11-08 04:34:00 I have been reading your blog for a long while and I thought you could help with a little problem of mine... I have been seeing this guy for nearly 6 months now. He is 26, I am 25. We seem to get along great- he is wonderful, kind and considerate except for one little detail- we haven't had sex. My boy is apparently a virgin and so every time we get any near sex he backs off really quick. Is it ...

TMI Tuesday 2007-11-06 05:26:00 1. Do you believe in ghosts? No. I do believe in spirits though. But I don't believe they have form or shape. If so have you every seen one? Nope, but I've felt connected to some spirits of loved ones lost. 2. What’s the scariest movie you ever saw? Sixth Sense...awful, I know! 3. If you were given a house that was free would you accept it if it was haunted? Yes, but I would turn it ...

Smooches! 2007-11-05 05:31:00 What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger..., this was a litany that was running through my head during the last grueling 2 weeks. Much love to the fam for all the love poured my way, my lil' sis Kafo for keeping me in touch and handling the finances, Teri for all her wonderful cheery visits, presents (AND FOOD!) and especially Norio for keeping me sane. I won't even begin to lament all the ...

Sick 2007-10-28 19:01:00 Vixen is sick she has been in the hospital for the last two weeks hopefully she will be back home this week this is kafo her sister ...

When His Ex Goes Psycho Bitch Around You... 2007-10-22 18:51:00 I got a question from one of my new readers. To paraphrase, she had recently started dating guy that had broken up with his former fiance a little over a month ago. Karen and the guy were really hitting it off. Okay, he tells me that his ex still calls him once in awhile...makes excuses of why she needs to stop by his house, etc... He ALWAYS has been extremely honest with me and I respect him so ...

When He Doesn't Get Off 2007-10-21 19:06:00 I'm sleeping with this really great guy but we're kind of having issues. The chemistry and everything is there and we're both very much physically attracted to each other but he doesn't seem to get off when we have sex. He'll get really really hard pre-sex and stay really hard the entire time and we'll have sex forever in billions of different positions but he won't get off. Is it something I'm ...

Me...? 2007-10-20 19:16:00 Yep...I've been sick. I'm better and home now...let's just pretend this never happened shall we? ...

When He Misses His Ex 2007-10-12 05:44:00 While getting soundly trounced at backgammon today, Norio and I started talking and somehow I brought up his ex and the fact that he hadn't heard from her in a while. She'd moved out of state and they have been able to keep a casual friendship even with me around. "Yeah, I'm surprised we haven't spoken in so long. I miss her," he stated. Enter Vixen in her royally pissed and totally affronted ...

TMI Tuesday 2007-10-10 06:25:00 Okay, I'm suffering through an extreme bout of losing my muse...hence the silence. To find my Muse, I've decided to embark in TMI Tuesday. Okay, so today is Wednesday, I know, I know! Feel free to chime in with your answers to the questions, either on here or on your own blog. So, let's kiss and tell. DISCLAIMER: This post is not suitable for anyone that knows me in real life. Proceed at your ...

Sex Getting Better with Age 2007-10-07 05:03:00 I was watching a show on Oprah last week about sex and an older lady who happened to be feisty bad girl commented on the fact that the older she got, the better sex got. She's in her late 50s, divorced and has a booty call when she's not in a relationship. Currently, she's single, but the cougar status is what rocks her socks when she does want a committed relationship. Go hot mama! According to ...

When You Have Feelings for Your Friend's Man 2007-09-27 08:01:00 This is a big No-no in the Sisterhood, but somehow there is always a lady that feels that this is something that she can't control. I don't care if you have a 'great chemistry' with the guy or it was just a 'random hookup', the fact that he's your friend's guy makes him automatically a leper to you. You might reason that you are doing her a favor, by showing her what a dog he is, but the truth ...